Is it wrong? I told my wife that I am talking with a woman from Answers on the phone and personal email. My?

wife and I have not slept together for three months and have been discussing divorse, way prior to this. She is always negative and has not been supportive lately. Therfore, I found a woman who is very nice and understanding and we talk. She sent me pictures and all of a sudden my wife went nuts with anger and jealousy. But this is the first time in months I think she showed any emotion about us separating, she played like she didntcare. Anyway, I like talking to this Answer girl and we have alot of laughs and its moving pretty fast lately. Am I wrong? Should I not do this? She is married also, but not too happily
Is it wrong? I told my wife that I am talking with a woman from Answers on the phone and personal email. My?
I TOTALLY agree with Juliet! It sounds like you are trying to fullfill that much needed attention and excietment that you haven't had for a while. But then again the other woman you are talking to is married. So technically speaking it is wrong what you are doing....don't act on lust. If you are talking about divorde...GET ONE! Don't sit around and wait. That is a waiste of your time and your wifes.





Just be friends with this other woman...I don't think there is anything wrong with being friends! But give it time...take care of what you need to take care of (with your current marriage) Then move on. If this other woman is available and SINGLE later on then I would go for it. Don't jump into things when you are married and go talking to another woman and try to get serious with her, no matter how much you like her, until you are legally seperated. It just causes the new relationship to go sour. I have seen this so many times it isn't even funny. You both are doing something that is exciteing right now, not neccesary the right thing but handle what you need to first!





Don't waist your life with someone that you can not find happyness with, but don't be an adulterer...good luck! :-)
Reply:I think you should do what you think is the right thing no matter what. If you like talking to this girl and you and your wife are not sleeping together and talking divorce, why not. Hope everything works out for you.
Reply:Should you start a relationship with this girl before the both of you are legally divorced, then ,it would be legally wrong...Yet, emotionally, I don't think you're doing anything wrong talking to her, or even getting further with her: a wife denying sex to her husband for months is NOT acting as a wife, so, you have the right to fulfill your needs as you wish.





Since she doesn't behave like a WIFE to you, I think she has no right to rebuke you as only a real wife would have the right to do;)





Divorce as soon as you can, so that you'll be legally free too, and do whatever you like;)
Reply:i dont know, its not too good, id b angry at my hubby
Reply:Why she should be supportive if you are the one who denies sex you are the one who talks to that girl you are the one who does NOT care about the relationship and instead of looking for a job you siting at home and talking with an unhappy house wife and you think that your wife is wrong? I am not surprise that she is no longer supportive and I would give her good advice: run girl run!!!
Reply:Mike Mike !


Yes it is wrong ! I understand you are not happily married ,but if she is also married ....It's a completely different situation !


What you have right now is longing for attention ...not love !


I would leave the marriage ....and look for a new happy healthy relationship.....If I did have the courage with 3 kids ....I'm sure you can do it .


And if she is divorce by than ....you two can begin a new life together !


Whatever your decision will be .....Good luck !
Reply:sounds like your marriage isn't fulfilling your needs, and you're trying to meet those needs outside the relationship. of course this is destructive and will only exacerbate the existing problems in your marriage.





cut if off with the other woman. advise your wife that you have cut if off %26amp; will not speak to the other woman again, then keep your word. put the other woman on your "ignore" list in email or whatever method of communication you use.





once it's clear that the other woman is out of the picture, time to work on your marriage. seek a marriage counselor %26amp; start working out your issues with your wife. if your wife refuses to attend counseling, advise your wife that you need her to be there. if she's adamant, it's a clear sign she's unwilling to work on the marriage's issues and it's time for you to hire a divorce attorney. i hope she chooses the counseling, for both your sakes. good luck. :/
Reply:Mike, I think you are using this girl to make your wife jealous or to at least get some type of emotion out of her. That shows that you care about her which is a great sign.





As for the married woman you have been talking to, hasn't it all been completely innocent? I think she talks to you on a friend level put isn't ready for or looking for a relationship or for a call from your wife to her husband. Sounds like in the process of making your wife "show she cares for you" you have endangered this Yahoo answers person's marriage. I bet she didn't realize that it could become this and would feel completely awful to know that she hurt your wife in anyway.





If I was this other woman I bet she doesn't appreicate being used to make your wife jealous by asking for pictures and showing your wife her e-mails. If I was her, I would stop talking to you so that you can work on fixing your marriage. I don't believe in throwing in the towel when things get tough. I think you need to remember the love you had for your wife when you married her and know that marriage is hard and takes work. People do change but I don't think it is smart to throw everything away when you havn't done all you can do to save your marriage.





Mike, stop talking to the other woman and work on your marriage. Even if it is just friendly talk, your wife doesnt' like it so you should do what she wants. If you end up both agreeing on a divorce then when everything is finally, go out and meet a girl with the same interests as you and try to build a meaningful relastionship with someone that you can grow old with. Oh and be sure she isn't already married. Hope everything works out....
Reply:ADULTERER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You should be ashamed.