Should i email this girl at her work? (or her personal email or not email her at all)? what should i do??

heres the story





i met a girl thurs night last week. actually we had met before a few times. i had forgotten we had met but she remembered who i was and started the convo with me thurs night as i was ending to the bathroom. well we talked she bought me a drink (i tried to buy the drink but she insisted. she told me she can buy a drink for me if she wants), and she told me she starts her new job today as a teacher at the high school level. shes young 23 and im 26. she told me where she taught and i asked her for her full name (i had forgot what her name was!) i found the school website and her school email was on there.





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should i email her (should i email her school email or personal) %26amp; see if we can meet up the end of the week? i want to tell her i enjoyed talking to her and want to talk again, i just dont want to sound pathetic or desperate (i dont know what to say). she told me where she lives and its pretty close to me. i googled her name the next day, and i found her facebook profile and her art website with her personal email and her cell #! i knew it was her bc in her about me section on the site it said some things she told me like where she wass from and her college she went to. i added her on fb but couple days later i tried to find it again and it was deleted...what do you think?? i dont want to look desperate
Should i email this girl at her work? (or her personal email or not email her at all)? what should i do??
just send a friendly email to her, but remember, all her emails might be read by someone else because it is a work email





so just say something like, it was good to see you again, blah blah, something nice, but Not too personal





give her your number and ask her to give you a call sometime, then drop it, and wait





if she doesn't respond, you will have your answer





Good Luck!
Reply:It doesn't matter which email you use to contact her. Just send her an email and say hi and tell her you want to meet her again. If she's interested, she'll respond, if not, keep it cool and maybe email her a few days later..that way you won't seem too desperate.


Good Luck!
Reply:Definitely not her work e-mail. I would send her a personal e-mail. If she deleted her facebook account than maybe she is not interested.





Send her an e-mail on her personal e-mail, if she doesn't e-mail you back then you KNOW she's not intersted. Good luck buddy.
Reply:dont email her at work itll make you look like a stalker
Reply:i would suggest adding her on facebook again. perhaps she was really excited you added her then never messaged her and she got annoyed and deleted you. Send her a message on there sounding intrested but casual i.e. 'hey is this the stunning girl i met at that bar and bought me a drink? if it is i would love to repay the favour and you can tell me how the jobs going. if not i'm sorry.


Laters'





or something to that effect?
Reply:Well for starters you might not want to tell her all the info you found on her, might be a little much ya know? If you have a personal email use it, it's a lot less problems and tell her you googled her name and saw she had a web site. Make fun of yourself a little bit too, explaining that you had to do this just to get in touch with her. It might be awkward but if you make a joke of it all it could look better. Good luck.
Reply:Why not email her school address, not her work as a lot of companies monitor that - school IT guys are well known for poking through email or at least when I was a student. As far as not sounding desperate I can't help you just don't try any of those pick up lines. So keep it short tell a little about your day and end with a question about her day or something





Good luck.
Reply:No, your time to get her phone number was thurs night. Don't ever forget that you're a man, and there is something very humbling about asking a woman for her number in person. Part of asking a girl out is having the courage and the timing to do this in person. Also, women enjoy the experience of being politely asked for a phone number for a date. Don't stalk her...that's scarey for a gal.






Reply:i dont mean to be critical but you sound very desperate, lay off a little. she may get creeped out that your found all her info on the internet. next time you see her make mention that you would like to meet and maybe ask her for her number. i tend to think that group dates make a girl easier to say yes too so ask her if she would like to go to dinner with you and maybe another couple you kno. peace.
Reply:Yes, e-mail her on her personal e-mail address...and if you would like you can send a quick note to her work address telling her to check out her personal address (I know I don't check mine but 1 or 2X/week).





People have to get over this "I don't want to sound desperate" thing. go for it, if she is special enough you don't want to end up missing out because you waited so you wouldn't sound desperate.





Most people are happy to hear from a potential partner...just e-mail her.





Don't call her...she didn't give you her #, that makes you sound creepy if you say you found her number and wanted to call...let her give it to you.
Reply:I suggest you chalk it up to one that has gotten away. If she didn't ask you for your # or contact info then she may not be intrested. Her buying you a drink just may have been her feeling good, and saying "hey, I got a new job and money now, I could buy YOU a drink". But you still have that itch to contact her, just do ONE (let me say it again ONE!!) "hey, i met you at that thing, i am ____ how are you?" If you dont get an email back then you already have your answer and if you do then you have your answer.
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