I like my coworker so i gave him my personal email address....help?

Ever since i start working in this place i like a guy, he is a few years younger than me, but we never talk other than work issues, I know he likes me, but He know im married and I would never though of cheating on my husband. Well now things are different Im getting divorce (cheating husband) and would like to talk to this guy so I gave him my personal email address...just like that, i called him into my office and ask him if he could keep at secret, and he said yes" so i gave him a sticker note and said "just keep it for yourself, you know how people are around here" and he just stared at the note...didn't say anything and i walked away. Now, I want to know what he might be thinking. Nobody knows in my office im getting divorce. Advise on what to do next.?...Please no nasty comments.
I like my coworker so i gave him my personal email address....help?
The old rule is dont **** where you eat. Although I think what you did was sexy. I would wait for him now since you made the first move. If it wasnt a work issue I would do diff things but you cant piss him off.
Reply:You are just reacting to an emotional situation (divorce). Don't just go after the first guy you see, especially at work. It won't turn out well at all. Now you are acting shady and basically pretty easy. It will get out and kill your reputation in the workplace. You need time to move on before even considering meeting new people. It's not fair to them.
Reply:You probable need to let him know you are getting a divorce. He might think you are wanting to have an affair.


This might be a bad idea if this guy is a direct report to you or if you are middle management or above and he isn't.
Reply:maybe he thought it was an april fools joke... if it backfires on you, you can always fall back on "april fools!" but up to you.. Don't sweat it...
Reply:My old man told me something years ago and I have found it to be a very wise piece of advice.





"Never dip your wick in your own office"





Office romances almost always end very badly.
Reply:If your really serious about him then i guess you should wait until he emails you, inform him of the divorce and ask him if he would ever want to do something like go out to eat or out to a movie. Tell him if he does not want to there is no pressure and it is seperate from work, and that you like him. If he says yes then go for it, just make sure to constantly remind him just every once in awhile that the relationships seperate from work and that at work your his co-worker nothing more. Since if feelings are displayed in the office there could be investigations and obviously rumors. Its a hard thing to pull off so be careful.